Saturday, June 23, 2007

Fasting

Fasting, like Salaat and Zakaat, is fundamental
institution of Islam. The Fardh Fasting is a practice
of vital importance. Allah Ta’ala states in the
Qur’aan Shareef:
“O people of Imaan! Fasting has been decreed
compulsory for you.”
The importance of fasting is abundantly established by
numerous narrations of the Qur’aan and Hadith. It is
clear from the narrations of the Qur’aan and Hadith
that for attaining salvation, Salaat, Zakaat and Hajj
and not sufficient. It is essential to fast the Fardh
fasts of Ramadhaan.
Fasting is distinguished from other acts of ibaadat by
its inconspicuous nature. Whereas other acts of
ibaadat, e.g. Salaat, Zakaat, Hajj, are conspicuous in
varying degrees. Fasting is totally concealed. Only
Allah Ta’ala is aware if one is fasting or not. Only
those who truly have the love or fear of Allah Ta’ala
in their hearts will fast.
Experience proves that weakness in love and fear for
Allah could be remedied by engaging in such acts which
produce muhabbat (love) and azmat (respect honour and
awe). Fasting is greatly efficacious in this regard.
Thus weaknessin one’s Imaan and love for Allah is
strengthened by fasting. One in whose heart the love
and fear of Allah Ta’ala become embedded, will be
strong and steadfast on the Deen. The natural effect
of fasting is to produce strength in one’s Deen. This
effect is referred to in the following two hadith:
1. Hadhrat Abu Hurairah (radiallahu anhu) narrates
that Allha Ta’ala said:
“Hadhrat Abu Hurairah (radiallahu anhu) narrates that
Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said that
Allah Ta’ala said:
“All good deeds are for the one who renders them, but
fasting. Fasting is exclusively for Me (Allah).”

(Bukhari)
2. Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said that
Allah Ta’ala said: “The one who fasts, abstains from
eating, drinking and sexual relations for My Sake.”
Another narration states that Allah Ta’ala said that
the fasting person leaves off his desires and
pleasures for His Sake. (Ibn Khuzaimah).
Fasting being exclusively for the sake of Allah Ta’ala
reflects the high degree of sincerity underlying the
act of ibaadat. The high degree of sincerity coupled
with abstention form evil and futility produce glitter
and strength in the Imaan of the fasting person. Great
emphasis is therefore laid on fasting. This is very
clear from the fact that Allah Ta’ala described the
act of man’s fasting as being only for Him (Allah
Ta’ala).
1. Hadhrat Abu Ummaamah (radiallahu anhu) narrates
that he asked Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam)
to impose on him some deed of great significance
Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said. Adopt
fasting, for there is no act greater than it. Hadhrat
Abu Ummaamah repeated his request second time
Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) again advised
him to adopt fasting. Hadhrat Abu Ummaamah put forward
his request again, a third time, and Rasulullah
(sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said:
“Adopt fasting, for there is no deed equal to it.”

(Nisaai, Ibn Khuzaimah)
The superiority of fasting is in relation to certain
special characteristics of fasting such as degree of
sincerity, efficacy in strengthening weak Imaan,
inculcating love and fear of Allah and its acting as a
barrier against sin. These special benefits of fasting
are attainable only if one fasts consciously and
observes the respects and rights of fasting.
2. Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said:
Fasting is a shield and a powerful fortress.”

(Ahmad, Baihaqi)
Like fasting is a shield of protection against
internal (spiritual) diseases, viz., sins. so too, is
it a protection against external sicknesses, i.e.
physical illness. In the majority of cases, physical
sickness is the result of excessive eating. This cause
is arrested in fasting.
3. Hadhrat Abu Hurairah (radiallahu anhu) narrates
that Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said:
“Every person has a zakaat (to pay) and the zakaat of
the body is fasting.”

(Ibn Majah)
Like wealth is purified by means of paying Zakaat, the
body is purified by means of fasting. Zakaat is the
elimination of impurities from wealth while Fasting is
the elimination of impurities from the body. And, the
role of fasting as indicated already, operates in both
the physical and spiritual spheres of man’s life.
4. Hadhrat Abu Hurairah (radiallahu anhu) narrates
that Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said:
“Keep fasting; you will remain healthy.”

(Tibrani)
Fasting produces both physical and spiritual health.
Fasting produces spiritual peace and exhiliration.
5. Hadhrat Abu Hurairah (radiallahu anhu) in a lengthy
hadith, narrates that Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi
wasallam) said:
“The fasting person experiences two (occasions of)
delights: At the time of iftaar and at the time when
he will meet his Rabb.”

(Bukhari)
During the month of Ramadhan an additional ibaadat,
viz., Taraaweeh Salaat, has also been decreed. The
performance of Taraweeh is Sunnatul Muakkadah which is
an act, the performance of hich is obligatory although
it may be omitted for a valid Shar’I reason. One who
is neglectful of Sunnatul Muakkadah is guilty of sin
and is termed in the Shariah a ‘faasiq’. Taraweeh
reduces sleep to some extent. Sleep is an act highly
pleasing and loved by the nafs. Hence, by means of
Taraaweeh Salaat one strives against the nafs and in
so doing the nafs is disciplined. This ibaadat of
Taraweeh is an act which is greatly efficient in the
spiritual training of the nafs. During the month of
Ramadhan, Allah Ta’ala hs united two great and highly
efficacious spiritual exercises in the form of fasting
and Taraaweeh Salaat.
6. Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said:
“Allah Ta’ala has ordained fasting in Ramadhan
compulsory, and I have decreed (by the command of
Allah) wakefulness at night (i.e. Taraaweeh, etc.)
Sunnat. “Whoever in the state of Imaan and the belief
of thawaab fasts in Ramadhan and stays awake at night
(i.e. forTaraweeh) , emerges from sin, purified as the
day when his mother gave birth to him.”

(Nisaai)
7. Hadhrat Abdullah Bin Umar (radiallahu anhu)
narrates that Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam)
said.
“Fasting and the Qur’aan will intercede on behalf of
one on the Day of Qiyaamah. The Fast will proclaim: ‘O
Allah! I prevented him form eating and carnal desire.
Therefore, for my sake accept my intercession on his
behalf.’ The Qur’aan will proclaim: ‘I prevented him
from sleep. Therefore, intercession of both will be
accepted.”

(Ahmad, Tibrani, Hakim)
8. In a lengthy aayat Allah Ta’ala says:
“For the fasting man and for fasting woman …… Allah
has prepared a great reward and forgiveness.”

(Surah Ahzaab)
9. Hadhrat Abu Hurairah (adiallahu anhu(, in a lengthy
hadith, narrates that Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi
wasallam) said:
“I swear by that Being in Whose possession in the life
of Muhammad! The odour of the mouth of a fasting
person in sweeter to Allah Ta’ala than the fragrance
of musk.”

(Bukhari)
10. Hadhrat Ibn Umar (radiallahu anhu) narrates, in a
lengthy hadith, that Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi
wasallam) said:
“Fasting is exclusively for Allah Ta’ala. The thawaab
of it (being limitless) no one knows besides Allah
Ta’ala.”

(Tibrani Baihaqi)
11. Hadhrat Abu Saeed Khurdi (radiallahu anhu)
narrates that Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam)
said:
“The Doors of the Heavens are opened up on the first
night of Ramadhan. Not a single Door (among the Doors
of Heavens) is then closed until the last night of
Ramadhan. For every Salaat performed (this refers to
Taraaweeh Salaat) during the nights of Ramadhan, Allah
Ta’ala records one and a half thousand good deeds for
every Sajdah (of that Salaat). And, for the fasting
person, Allah Ta’ala creates in Jannat a mansion of
red Ya’koot (a precious stone in Jannat). This mansion
will have seven thousand entrances. (So huge will be
these entrances that in each entrance will be located)
a palace of gold adorned with red Ya’koot. When the
Muslim fasts the first day of Ramadhan, Allah Ta’ala
forgives all his sins committed from the first of the
previous Ramadhan. Daily (i.e. during Ramadhan) from
the time of Fajr Salat until sunset, seventy thousands
Malaaikah supplicate for his forgiveness. In return
for every Sajdah which he (the fasting person) makes
of any Salaat, whether during the day or night, he
will obtain (such a wonderful) tree 9so huge) that a
horseman will take five hundred years to pass under
its shade.”

(Baihaqi)
12. Hadhrat Salmaan (radiallahu anhu) narrates that
during the last Juma’ of the month of Sha’baan
Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) recited a
Khutbah in which he said:
“O People! An auspicious month has dawned over you. In
that month is a night which is susperior to a thousand
months (i.e. ibaadat in this night is superior to the
ibaadat rendered in a thousand months. Allah Ta’ala
has made compulsory fasting in this month and has
decreed fasting in this month and has decreed
wakefulness at night (i.e. Tarawaeeh Salaat) Sunnat. A
Nafl (non-obligatory or optional) act rendered in this
month for attaining proximity to Allah, is equal to a
Fardh act rendered in other months. A Fardh act
rendered in this month is equal to seventy Fardh acts
of other months. Whoever gives to a fasting person
something for iftaar, his sins will be forgiven and he
will be saved from Jahannum: he obtains as much
thawaab as the fasting person (to whom he had given
something for iftaar) while the thawaab of the person
is not reduced in any way.”
The people asked: ‘O Rasulullah! All of us do not have
the means to give something for the iftaar to another.
(They were at the time under the impression that
Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) referred to a
full meal.) Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam)
said:
“This thawaab is even for the man who gives another a
date, a drink of water or milk (for iftaar)” (Ibn
Khuzaimah)
Another special ibaadat during the month of Ramadhan
is I’tikaaf during the last ten days. I’tikaaf during
Ramadhan is an ibaadat which belongs to the class of
Sunnat known as Sunnatul Kifaayah. This ibaadat is a
collective Sunnat upon all. However, if a few, even
one perons, renders the I’tikaaf, the Sunnat
obligation will be discharged on behalf of the whole
community. The Ibaadat of I’tikaaf consists of
secluding oneself inside the Musjid for the last ten
days of Ramadhan. The time has to be passed in
ibaadat. Some ahadith regarding the significance of
I’tikaaf are enumerated hereunder.
1. Hadhrat Ali Ibn Hussain narrates from his father
that Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said:
“He who observes the ten days I’tikaaf during Ramadhan
will obtain the thawaab of two Hajj and two Umrah.”
2. Hadhrat Ibn Abbas (radiallahu anhu) narrates that
Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said in regard
to those who observe I’tikaaf:
“They are prevented from all sins and they obtain
thawaab as if they are rendering all good deeds.”
(Mishkaat)
By the practice of I’tikaaf, one gains the opportunity
of continuous residence in the Musjid. The
significance of remaining in the Musjid for Ibaadat
has already been explained in Rooh number
12. Women who intend to observe I’tikaaf should do so
at home. They should seclude themselves in a
particular place at home.
The special acts of Ibaadat of the month of Ramadhan
terminate with the coming of Eid. The hadith explains
great significance of the Day of Eid as well. In a
lengthy hadith, Hadhrat Anas (radiallahu anhu)
narrates that Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam)
said:
“When Eid arrives, Allah Ta’ala addresses the
Malaaikah: ‘They (Muslims) have fulfilled My Fardh.
They have emerged to make dua. I take oath by My
Splendour, by My Grandeur, by My Grace and by My
Loftiness that I will most certainly accept their
petition.’ Allah Ta’ala then proclaims to the
Believers”
‘Return! I have forgiven you and I have exchanged your
evil deeds with virtues.
They thus return from the Musalla (whenever the Eid
Salaat was performed) forgiven.”



Hadhrat Umar (Rali) - The HUNGRY Must Be Fed

“And the likeness of those who spend their substance, seeking to please Allah and to strengthen their souls, is as a garden, high and fertile: heavy rain falls on it but makes it yield a double increase of harvest, and if it receives not Heavy rain, light moisture sufficeth it. Allah seeth well whatever ye do.”
(Al-Qur'an, 2:265 (Al-Baqara [The Cow])

Once Hadhrat Umar (Radhiyallaho Anho), during his caliphate, was going on his usual rounds towards Harrah (a suburb of Madinah) with his slave Aslam,
when he saw a distant fire in the desert. He said, "There seems to be a camp. Perhaps, it is a caravan that could not enter the town due to night fall. Let's go and look after them and arrange for their protection during the night."

When he reached there, he found a woman and some children. The children were crying. The woman had a pan of water over the fire. Hadhrat Umar (Radhiyallaho Anho) greeted her with salaam and, with her permission, went near her. (The woman didn't recognize that it was Umar).

Umar, "Why are these children crying?" The Woman, "Because they are hungry."
Umar, "What is in the pan?"
The Woman, "Only water to soothe the children, so that they may go to sleep in the belief that food is being prepared for them. Ah! Allah will judge between Umar (Radhiyallaho Anho) and me, on the Day of Judgment, for neglecting me in my distress."

Umar (weeping), "May Allah have mercy on you! How can Umar know of your distress?" The Woman, "When he is our Amir, he must keep himself informed about us."

Hadhrat Umar (Radhiyallaho Anho) returned to the town and straight away went to the Baitul Mal (House of Charity) to fill a sack with flour, dates, fat, and clothes, and also drew some money. When the sack was ready, he said to Aslam, "Now put this sack on my back, Aslam."

Aslam, "No please, Amir-ul-Momineen! I shall carry this sack."

Umar refused to listen to Aslam, even on his persistent requests to allow him to carry the sack, and remarked, "What! Will you carry my load on the Day of Judgment? I must carry this bag, for it is I who would be questioned (in the Hereafter) about this woman."

Aslam most reluctantly placed the bag on Umar's (Radhiyallaho Anho) back, who carried it with a swift pace right to the woman's tent. Aslam followed at his heels. He put a little flour and some dates and fat in the pan and began to stir. He blew (with his mouth) into the fire to kindle it.

Aslam says, "I saw the smoke passing through his thick beard."

After some time, the pottage was ready. He himself served it to the family. When they had eaten to their fill, he made over to them the little that was left for their next meal. The children were very happy after their meal and began to play about merrily.
The woman felt very grateful and remarked, "May Allah reward you for your kindness! In fact you deserve to take the place of Khalifah instead of Umar."

Umar consoled her and said, "When you come to see the Khalifah, you will find me there."

He sat for a while at a place close by and kept on watching the children. He then returned to Madinah. On his way back, he said to Aslam, "Do you know why I sat there, Aslam? I had seen them weeping in distress. I liked to see them laughing and happy for some time."

Source: From the book "Stories of the Sahaba" by Shaikh Muhammad Zakariyya Kandhalvi.




Developing Self-Control

"We relate to thee their story in truth: they were youths who believed in their Lord, and We advanced them in guidance: We gave strength to their hearts: Behold, they stood up and said: "Our Lord is the Lord of the heavens and of the earth: never shall we call upon any god other than Him: if we did, we should indeed have uttered an enormity!"(Al-Kahf 18:13-14)

Muslims' Life's Challenges Developing Self-Control
The First Step to Overcoming Addiction
By Altaf Husain
Ever wonder what life would be like if every time we had an impulse to satisfy our desires, we did so? Eat what we want, when we want to, giving no thought to how much we eat. Drink what we want, when we want to, giving no thought to how much we drink. Listen to audio entertainment when we want to, giving no thought to the words or to how long we have been listening or to how loud it is. Watch video entertainment when we want to, giving no thought to the images we take in, to how long we watch, or to how loud it is. Surf the Internet (of course at the highest speeds) when we want to, giving no thought to the Web sites we visit, the sounds and images we take in, to how long we surf, or to how straining it is on our eyes. Pursue the fulfillment of our lower desires whenever we want, with whomever we want, wherever we want, for however long we want.

Welcome to the world of no self-control! In this world, there is utter, uncontrollable chaos. Nothing is controlled and no one exercises any control. Due to the unregulated fulfillment of lower desires, no one knows who their father is and no one knows who their mother is. Babies are just being born and no one is claiming them and no one is caring for them. There are no relationships of any kind. Diseases are rampant. People are dying and rotting away in full view of their neighbors and yet, no one lifts a finger to initiate burial rites. Who cares? No one needs anyone else because everyone is concerned only about themselves.

In this world, there are no airplanes because, let’s face it, no one after an uncontrolled lifetime could fit in the current design for coach seating on a plane. The weight of the meals alone that would be needed to satisfy passengers with no self-control would ground the plane. The solution has become to just shift from passenger aircraft to private cargo planes, without seats, and at best meant to accommodate one out-of-control individual at a time. In this world, everyone is on the brink of losing their hearing and their sight due to intense and continuous exposure to loud music, television, and computer monitor screens. The clothing industry is thriving because people have to buy new clothes every other day since they are accumulating pounds faster than frequent-flyer miles. And since no one can fly anymore, that’s not many miles at all. Medical and other human service professionals are working overtime to address the near exponential rise in the demand for emergency medical care, counseling, and endless therapy sessions for people with conditions ranging from “severe-couch- potato-itis” (inflammation of the entire body in response to uncontrolled consumption) to “IHLTCS” (I have lost total control syndrome).

As expected, the reader is by now grossed out, laughing hard, or crying uncontrollably. But why? Grossed out, perhaps, because taken to its extreme, focusing on satisfying our lower desires without any control does not seem all that appealing after all. Laughing hard, perhaps, because the images that some of the above descriptions conjure up are hilarious. Crying uncontrollably, perhaps, because so much of what is written above seems so close to either certain personal behaviors that need modification or certain socio-cultural patterns that need to be altered!

Craving, Compulsion, and Loss of Control

The reality about self-control is that it is at the heart of any discussion about addiction. While definitions of what an addiction is vary, “one simple model for understanding addiction is to apply the three Cs: (1) Behavior that is motivated by emotions ranging along the Craving to Compulsion spectrum (2) Continued use in spite of adverse consequences and (3) Loss of Control.” (Shaffer). Essentially, according to this model, a person who is addicted does not simply obsess in the realm of thoughts but proceeds actually to act in order to satisfy a “craving” or a “compulsion.” In addition, the person continues to satisfy that craving or compulsion despite the fact that there are adverse consequences to that person’s physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, and intellectual health. Finally, the model helps us to understand addiction in the context of a total loss of control. And it is this loss of control and the development of self-control that the remainder of this article will address.

Soul Stages: Fight Off the Soul Commanding to Evil!

Islam emphasizes a balanced outlook in all aspects of our lives. As human beings, we are created with higher level and lower level desires and we are given guidance as to how to go about satisfying those desires in a manner pleasing to Allaah Most High. Those of us who are alert and in constant contact with our souls are able to come to terms with the fact that Allaah Most High might have tested us with one or the other of the following three temporal soul stages: an-nafs al-ammarah bis-su’ (soul commanding to evil or evil-inciting soul, see Soorah Yoosuf 12:53); an-nafs al-lawwamah (self-reproaching soul, see Soorah Al Qiyaamah 75:2); and an-nafs al-mutma’innah (tranquil, peaceful, reassured soul see Soorah Al Fajr 89:27-28). These three soul stages are temporal; each Muslim’s goal is, at a very personal and intimate level, to be aware of the particular stage being experienced and to strive ceaselessly to reach the stage of maximum self-control, of tranquility, and of calm—an-nafs al-mutma’innah.

In the context of addiction, clearly the dominant soul stage is an-nafs al-ammarah bis-su’ because the addict is completely imprisoned by his or her lower desires.

The evil-inciting soul grips us unaware in the midst of a state of forgetfulness such that we leave the realm of taqwa (Allaah-consciousne ss) and we remain in a state of ghafla or utter heedlessness, void of any awareness or connection with Allaah Most High. There is, perhaps, no soul stage that is to be feared and resisted more passionately than the evil-inciting soul stage because it is often at this soul stage that we forget Allaah, we are heedless, utterly unaware. We are commanded to resist acts of transgression committed often in a state of forgetfulness, because Allaah Most High tells us:

“And be ye not like those who forgot Allaah, and He made them forget their own souls! Such are the rebellious transgressors!” (Al-Hashr 59:19)

Those who forget Allaah Subhaanahu wa Ta`aala are doomed because temporarily, they have fallen out of submission to Allaah and have descended to the depths of disobedience, driven totally by their lower desires. Worse, the consequence of forgetting Allaah Subhaanahu wa Ta`aala is that He causes us to forget ourselves! This is, unfortunately, the lot of many addicts. The addiction itself becomes a part of their daily routine to the extent that sometimes it even defies logic.

Would young women enrolled in medical and nursing studies allow themselves to eat uncontrollably or to eat foods known to cause unhealthy weight gain? Rasheed (1999) studied over seventy young women to explore their beliefs related to body image and weight control. Rasheed reports that “females who reported indulging in an improper selection of dietary items described their diet as being rich in carbohydrates and calories (particularly mentioning sweets, chocolates, and regular cola drinks), but low in protein, minerals, and fiber content. They often indulged in fast food with cheese and chicken sandwiches being the most popular dietary items while fruits and vegetables were rarely consumed” (p. 366). Although not often thought about in common discourse, overeating could in itself, according to Shaffer’s model, become an addiction. Overeating of foods known to cause unhealthy weight gain is to do so in the face of adverse consequences. Overeating is by nature eating without a sense of control and the related disorders of anorexia and bulimia are two polar ends of this loss of control. Eating in Islam is treated as an act of worship!

Would a medical doctor actually smoke despite learning about, coming into contact with, and perhaps even signing the death certificate of patients who succumbed to lung cancer? Maziak (1999) studied smoking habits among physicians. They found that “male doctors who smoke daily go through, on average, a full pack of cigarettes per day, which means they are mostly heavy smokers, and, therefore, are likely to show more signs of nicotine dependence. One of the features of this dependence is the urgency to smoke first thing in the morning. This explains why two-thirds of the daily smokers in our study smoke their first cigarette within one hour of waking up” (p. 255). Applying Shaffer’s model of understanding an addiction, we note that what is termed as a “dependence,” in the study on smoking, is essentially an addiction. There is a craving involved, there is continued smoking in the face of the possibility of lung cancer, and, given the “urgency” to smoke “within one hour of waking up,” there is also a loss of control. There are clear injunctions against indulging in any activity that is harmful to the body.

Overcoming Addiction

Overcoming addiction is, therefore, best seen as an attempt to shun the state of heedlessness and to feel intense remorse for having lingered for so long in the domain of the soul commanding to evil. No matter what the addiction, whether to alcohol or drugs, pornography or to any other condition driven by an uncontrollable appetite to satisfy the lower desires, the addict’s greatest challenge is to come to his or her senses just long enough to have a sense of awakening, a moment of recognition as to just how severe are the consequences of his or her continued loss of self-control!

No one becomes addicted intentionally; it is not a goal one sets out to accomplish. Addiction is ultimately the triumph of the soul commanding to evil over the self-reproaching soul. What begins as just one quick glance at a pornographic Web site, one sip of alcohol, one snort of cocaine, one injection of heroin, or even one session of aggressive overeating does not affect every individual the same way. For those who have a weak relationship with Allaah Subhaanahu wa Ta`aala, are on the margins of daily worship, are keeping company with similarly heedless individuals, the one glance, the one sip leads them, ultimately, down a slippery slope from which they will have, potentially, a lifelong struggle recovering.

For others who talk to themselves constantly, are alert and aware but succumb momentarily to the soul commanding to evil, all praise is due to Allaah most High that their one act of transgression is all that is needed to return them from heedlessness to God-consciousness. Being in touch with themselves, they are able to feel remorseful, seek forgiveness from Allaah, and return to a state of self-control. The height of self-control is manifested in those people who are in touch with themselves to the extent that even a fleeting thought of transgression is sufficient enough as a warning for them and they exercise patience and self-control from seeking to satisfy their lower desires in an impermissible manner. Allaah Most High reminds us that they are

“Those who show patience, firmness and self-control; who are true (in word and deed); who worship devoutly; who spend (in the way of Allaah) and who pray for forgiveness in the early hours of the morning.” (Aali-‘Imraan 3:17)

As a final note, focusing thus far on a discussion at the individual level does not by any means negate the very real need for professionals trained in helping individuals overcome addiction. While developing self-control is ultimately an exercise and a goal that is intensely personal and intimate, an individual who has succumbed totally to the soul commanding to evil cannot help himself or herself unless and until there is professional intervention. For further information, the reader is invited to read Judith Muhammad’s article Islam and Addiction.

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Sources:
· Maziak, Wasim, MD, PhD; Mzayek, Fawaz, MD; Asfar, Taghrid, MD; Hassig, Suzan E., PhD. (1999). “Smoking Among Physicians in Syria : Do As I Say, Not As I Do!” Annals of Saudi Medicine, Volume 19, No. 3, pp. 253-256. King Faisal Specialist Hospital and Research Center . Available at: http://www.kfshrc. edu.sa/annals/ 193/98-176. pdf · Muhammad, Judith. (2000). “Islam and Addiction.” Available at: http://www.islam- online.net/ iol-english/ dowalia/society- 7-2-2000/ society1. asp
· Rasheed, Parveen. (1999). Overweight Status: Body Image and Weight Control Beliefs and Practices Among Female College Students. Annals of Saudi Medicine, Volume 19, No. 4, pp. 365-369. King Faisal Specialist Hospital and Research Center . Available at: http://www.kfshrc. edu.sa/annals/ 194/98-138. pdf
· Shaffer, Howard J. Ph.D., C.A.S. (undated). “What is Addiction?: A Perspective.” Available at: http://www.hms. harvard.edu/ doa/html/ whatisaddiction. htm. Accessed on July 8, 2005.

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Altaf Husain is a social worker in the United States and has been a contributing writer to Islam Online since 1998. He can be contacted at youth_campaign@ iolteam.com.












Saturday, June 02, 2007

The Major Sins --Al-Kaba'r- -

The major sins are those acts which have been forbidden by Allah in the Quran and by His Messenger (SAW) in the Sunnah (practise of the Prophet), and which have been made clear by the actions of the first righteous generation of Muslims, the Companions of the Prophet (SAW).
Allah Most High says in His Glorious Book:
If you avoid the major (part) of what you have been forbidden (to do), We will cancel out for you your (other) evil deeds and will admit you (to Paradise ) with a noble entry. (al-Nisa 4:31)
Thus by this verse, Allah Most High has guaranteed the Garden of Paradise to those who avoid the major sins. And Allah Most High also says:
Those who avoid the greatest of sins and indecencies, and forgive when they are angry (al-Shra 42:37) Those who avoid the greatest sins and indecencies, except for oversights, (will find that) surely your Lord is ample in forgiveness. (Al-Najm 53:32)
The Messenger of Allah (SAW) said: "The five [daily] prayers, Friday to Friday, and Ramadan to Ramadan make atonement for what has happened since the previous one when major sins have been avoided." It is therefore very important to determine exactly what the greatest vices, technically called "the major sins" (Kaba'ir), are, in order that Muslims should avoid them.
There is some difference of opinion among scholars in this regard. Some say these major sins are seven, and in support of their position they quote the tradition: "Avoid the seven noxious things"- and after having said this, the propeht (SAW) mentioned them: "associating anything with Allah; magic; killing one whom Allah has declared inviolate without a just case, consuming the property of an orphan, devouring usury, turning back when the army advances, and slandering chaste women who are believers but indiscreet." (Bukhari and Muslim)
'Abdullah ibn 'Abbas said: "Seventy is closer to their number than seven," and indeed that is correct. The above tradition does not limit the major sins to those mentioned in it. Rather, it points to the type of sins which fall into the category of "major." These include those crimes which call for a prescribed punishment (HADD; plural, HUDUD), such as theft, fornication or adultery (ZINA), and murder; those prohibited acts for which a warning of a severe punishment in the Next is given in the Qur'an or the tradition; and also those deeds which are cursed by our Prophet (SAW). These are all major sins.
Of course, there is a gradation among them, since some are more serious than others. We see that the Prophet (SAW) has included SHIRK (associating someone or something with Allah) among them, and from the text of the Qur'an we know that a person who commits SHIRK will not his sin be forgiven and will remain in Hell forever.
Allah Most High says:
Surely, Allah does not forgive associating anything with Him, and He forgives whatever is other than that to whomever He wills. (al-Nisa 4:48 and 116)
01. Associating anything with Allah
02. Murder
03. Practising magic
04. Not Praying
05. Not paying Zakat
06. Not fasting on a Day of Ramadan without excuse
07. Not performing Hajj, while being able to do so
08. Disrespect to parents
09. Abandoning relatives
10. Fornication and Adultery
11. Homosexuality( sodomy)
12. Interest(Riba)
13. Wrongfully consuming the property of an orphan
14. Lying about Allah and His Messenger
15. Running away from the battlefield
16. A leader's deceiving his people and being unjust to them
17. Pride and arrogance
18. Bearing false witness
19. Drinking Khamr (wine)
20. Gambling
21. Slandering chaste women
22. Stealing from the spoils of war
23. Stealing
24. Highway Robbery
25. Taking false oath
26. Oppression
27. Illegal gain
28. Consuming wealth acquired unlawfully
29. Committing suicide
30. Frequent lying
31. Judging unjustly
32. Giving and Accepting bribes
33. Woman's imitating man and man's imitating woman
34. Being cuckold
35. Marrying a divorced woman in order to make her lawful for the
husband
36. Not protecting oneself from urine
37. Showing-off
38. Learning knowledge of the religion for the sake of this world and
concealing that knowledge
39. Betrayal of trust
40. Recounting favours
41. Denying Allah's Decree
42. Listening (to) people's private conversations
43. Carrying tales
44. Cursing
45. Breaking contracts
46. Believing in fortune-tellers and astrologers
47. A woman's bad conduct towards her husband
48. Making statues and pictures
49. Lamenting, wailing, tearing the clothing, and doing other things
of this sort when an affliction befalls
50. Treating others unjustly
51. Overbearing conduct toward the wife, the servant, the weak, and
animals
52. Offending one's neighbour
53. Offending and abusing Muslims
54. Offending people and having an arrogant attitude toward them
55. Trailing one's garment in pride
56. Men's wearing silk and gold
57. A slave's running away from his master
58. Slaughtering an animal which has been dedicated to anyone other
than Allah
59. To knowingly ascribe one's paternity to a father other than one's
own
60. Arguing and disputing violently
61. Withholding excess water
62. Giving short weight or measure
63. Feeling secure from Allah's Plan
64. Offending Allah's righteous friends
65. Not praying in congregation but praying alone without an excuse
66. Persistently missing Friday Prayers without any excuse
67. Usurping the rights of the heir through bequests
68. Deceiving and plotting evil
69. Spying for the enemy of the Muslims
70. Cursing or insulting any of the Companions of Allah's Messenger

Source: The Major Sins Al-Kaba'r By Muhammad bin 'Uthman Adh-Dhahabi, rendered into English by Mohammad Moinuddin Siddiqui


The Prophet as a Man : Simple and Also Useful

No material thing was too attractive for the Prophet (peace be upon him). He never coveted anything of the comforts or adornments of this life. His approach was that whatever served the purpose was good enough. People may like to surround themselves with things that give pleasure or add beauty to living conditions, but the Prophet did not attach much importance to these. He would welcome them when they were available, but would not miss them if they were scarce. To him this life is too short to attach much importance to its luxuries.



We see this in the articles the Prophet used in his daily life. People like to have fine articles for their food and drink when they can afford them. They use a collection of plates, cups and glasses for their daily meals, keep a beautiful dinner set for their guests and surround themselves with articles that add beauty to their homes. They may replace these with better or more beautiful ones when they have the means to do so. There is nothing wrong with that. God says in the Qur'an: "Say, 'Who is there to forbid the beauty which God has produced for His servants, and the wholesome means of sustenance?' Say, 'They are (lawful) in the life of this world, to all who believe - to be theirs alone on the Day of Resurrection. '" (7: 32) However, when people compete in stocking what they do not use, only because they want to be on the same level as their friends or neighbours, then such luxuries are given too much importance. The Prophet has taught us, by practical example, that such an approach is wrong. He showed us that life can be just as comfortable without material luxury.



If we look at what the Prophet used for his food and drink, we find that he was satisfied with what was simple, inexpensive and served the purpose. We must always remember that this was a matter of choice, not imposed by his poverty. He could have whatever he wished, if he only showed a desire for it. Asim ibn Al-Ahwal, who belonged to the Tabieen generation that followed the Prophet's companions, says : "I saw the Prophet's cup at Anas ibn Malik's house. It had a crack and Anas pulled it together with a chain of silver. It was a good, wide cup made of fine, thin wood. Anas said to us: 'I gave the Prophet to drink out of this cup so many times.' Ibn Seereen says: 'The cup had a ring of iron and Anas wanted to replace it with one made of gold or silver, but Abu Talhah, (Anas' stepfather), told him not to change anything the Prophet had or did. Therefore, Anas left it as it was.'" (Related by Ahmad and Al-Bukhari.)



We may find it strange that wooden articles were used for such a frequent purpose as drinking. Yet in our homes we may use some wooden articles that are finely made. It is rare, however, that a wooden cup is used for drinking. However, when the Prophet had something better, he used it. Ibn Abbas reports : "The governor of Alexandria sent a cup made of glass to the Prophet and he used it to drink." (Related by Ibn Saad and Abu al-Shaykh.) This was part of the gift the ruler of Egypt sent to the Prophet in reply to his message calling on him to believe in Islam. The Egyptian ruler recognized the Prophet but decided to remain Christian and hoped to have friendly relations with the Prophet. Therefore, he sent him a gift to demonstrate his good will.



The Prophet also used other articles for his drink. Jabir reports : "The Prophet's drink was left for him to ferment in a large water skin. If none is found, they would put the drink in a stoneware beaker to ferment." (Related by Al-Shafie, Muslim and Al-Darimi.) We mentioned that the Prophet did not allow his drink to ferment for long. He would leave it over night and drink of it the following day, so that it would have some sweetness, but no trace of alcohol.



If the Prophet's household had an article, it was used until it no longer served the purpose for which it was made. Lady Sawdah, the Prophet's wife, reported : "We had a sheep, but she died. We dyed its skin and used it for fermenting drinks, until it became too dry." (Related by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari and Al-Tirmidhi. ) This Hadith makes it clear that when an animal dies of natural causes, it is not permissible to eat. However, its skin could be used after it is dyed. When it is dyed it is considered to be free of impurity. In this case, when the sheep died, its skin was put to good use, until it was too dry and became unsuitable for use.



All this gives us a picture of very simple life. The Prophet was keen that this remained the main characteristic of his life, so that people would look up to him for practical guidance in all respects. We can still do so when we study his life pattern very closely. We may add here a few Hadiths that confirm this picture. They hardly need any comment from us.



Lady Ayesha reports : "The Prophet and I used to bathe, drawing water from the same vessel, using a large one called Al-Faraq." (Related by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.) This is a large container that held enough water for two people to wash all their bodies, without being excessive. Ayesha reports: "We had this vessel of water which was filled for us. We both drew water out of it." (Related by Al-Bukhari and Al-Nassaie.)



Abdullah ibn Zayd reports: "The Prophet once came to us and we brought him water in a beaker made of brass. He performed ablutions, washing his face three times and his hands twice. He then wiped his head from front to back and back to front, then he washed his feet." (Related by Al-Shafie, Al-Bukhari and Al-Nassaie.).


Prophet

No material thing was too attractive for the Prophet (peace be upon him). He never coveted anything of the comforts or adornments of this life. His approach was that whatever served the purpose was good enough. People may like to surround themselves with things that give pleasure or add beauty to living conditions, but the Prophet did not attach much importance to these. He would welcome them when they were available, but would not miss them if they were scarce. To him this life is too short to attach much importance to its luxuries.



We see this in the articles the Prophet used in his daily life. People like to have fine articles for their food and drink when they can afford them. They use a collection of plates, cups and glasses for their daily meals, keep a beautiful dinner set for their guests and surround themselves with articles that add beauty to their homes. They may replace these with better or more beautiful ones when they have the means to do so. There is nothing wrong with that. God says in the Qur'an: "Say, 'Who is there to forbid the beauty which God has produced for His servants, and the wholesome means of sustenance?' Say, 'They are (lawful) in the life of this world, to all who believe - to be theirs alone on the Day of Resurrection. '" (7: 32) However, when people compete in stocking what they do not use, only because they want to be on the same level as their friends or neighbours, then such luxuries are given too much importance. The Prophet has taught us, by practical example, that such an approach is wrong. He showed us that life can be just as comfortable without material luxury.



If we look at what the Prophet used for his food and drink, we find that he was satisfied with what was simple, inexpensive and served the purpose. We must always remember that this was a matter of choice, not imposed by his poverty. He could have whatever he wished, if he only showed a desire for it. Asim ibn Al-Ahwal, who belonged to the Tabieen generation that followed the Prophet's companions, says : "I saw the Prophet's cup at Anas ibn Malik's house. It had a crack and Anas pulled it together with a chain of silver. It was a good, wide cup made of fine, thin wood. Anas said to us: 'I gave the Prophet to drink out of this cup so many times.' Ibn Seereen says: 'The cup had a ring of iron and Anas wanted to replace it with one made of gold or silver, but Abu Talhah, (Anas' stepfather), told him not to change anything the Prophet had or did. Therefore, Anas left it as it was.'" (Related by Ahmad and Al-Bukhari.)



We may find it strange that wooden articles were used for such a frequent purpose as drinking. Yet in our homes we may use some wooden articles that are finely made. It is rare, however, that a wooden cup is used for drinking. However, when the Prophet had something better, he used it. Ibn Abbas reports : "The governor of Alexandria sent a cup made of glass to the Prophet and he used it to drink." (Related by Ibn Saad and Abu al-Shaykh.) This was part of the gift the ruler of Egypt sent to the Prophet in reply to his message calling on him to believe in Islam. The Egyptian ruler recognized the Prophet but decided to remain Christian and hoped to have friendly relations with the Prophet. Therefore, he sent him a gift to demonstrate his good will.



The Prophet also used other articles for his drink. Jabir reports : "The Prophet's drink was left for him to ferment in a large water skin. If none is found, they would put the drink in a stoneware beaker to ferment." (Related by Al-Shafie, Muslim and Al-Darimi.) We mentioned that the Prophet did not allow his drink to ferment for long. He would leave it over night and drink of it the following day, so that it would have some sweetness, but no trace of alcohol.



If the Prophet's household had an article, it was used until it no longer served the purpose for which it was made. Lady Sawdah, the Prophet's wife, reported : "We had a sheep, but she died. We dyed its skin and used it for fermenting drinks, until it became too dry." (Related by Ahmad, Al-Bukhari and Al-Tirmidhi. ) This Hadith makes it clear that when an animal dies of natural causes, it is not permissible to eat. However, its skin could be used after it is dyed. When it is dyed it is considered to be free of impurity. In this case, when the sheep died, its skin was put to good use, until it was too dry and became unsuitable for use.



All this gives us a picture of very simple life. The Prophet was keen that this remained the main characteristic of his life, so that people would look up to him for practical guidance in all respects. We can still do so when we study his life pattern very closely. We may add here a few Hadiths that confirm this picture. They hardly need any comment from us.



Lady Ayesha reports : "The Prophet and I used to bathe, drawing water from the same vessel, using a large one called Al-Faraq." (Related by Al-Bukhari and Muslim.) This is a large container that held enough water for two people to wash all their bodies, without being excessive. Ayesha reports: "We had this vessel of water which was filled for us. We both drew water out of it." (Related by Al-Bukhari and Al-Nassaie.)



Abdullah ibn Zayd reports: "The Prophet once came to us and we brought him water in a beaker made of brass. He performed ablutions, washing his face three times and his hands twice. He then wiped his head from front to back and back to front, then he washed his feet." (Related by Al-Shafie, Al-Bukhari and Al-Nassaie.).


Five Things About Prophets Mosque

1. The Prophet's Mosque in Madina is the second holiest mosque in Islam. Al-Masjid Al-Haram in Makkah is the holiest mosque; the Al-Aqsa Mosque is the third holiest in Islam. The original Prophet's Mosque was built by Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) himself, next to the house where he settled after his Hijrah to Madina in 622 AD. 2. The original mosque was an open-air building with a raised platform for the reading of the Qur'an. It was a square enclosure of 30x35 meters, built with palm trunks and mud walls, and accessed through three doors: Bab Rahmah to the south, Bab Jibril to the west and Bab al-Nisa' to the east. The basic plan of the building has since been adopted in the building of other mosques throughout the world. Inside, the Prophet created a shaded area to the south called the suffah and aligned the prayer space facing north towards Masjid Al-Aqsa. When the qibla (prayer direction) was changed to Makkah, the mosque was re-oriented to the south.

3. Following its establishment, the Masjid Al-Nabawi continued to introduce some of the practices now considered common in today's mosques. For example, the adhan, or call to prayer, was developed in the form still used in mosques today. The Masjid Al-Nabawi was built with a large courtyard, a motif common among mosques built since then. The Prophet's Mosque served many purposes: negotiations were conducted, military actions planned, disputes settled, religious information disseminated.

4. After the foundation of the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia in 1932, the Prophet's Mosque underwent massive expansion. In 1951 King Abdul Aziz ordered new wings to the east and west of the prayer hall, which consisted of concrete columns with pointed arches. Older columns were reinforced with concrete and braced with copper rings at the top. The Suleymaniyya and Majidiyya minarets were replaced by two minarets in Mamluk revival style. Two additional minarets were erected to the northeast and northwest of the mosque. A library was built along the western wall to house historic copies of the Qur'an. In 1973 King Faisal ordered the construction of temporary shelters to the west of the mosque to accommodate the growing number of worshippers. In 1981, the old mosque was surrounded by new prayer areas on these sides, enlarging five times its size. The latest renovations took place under King Fahd and have greatly increased the size of the mosque.

5. Imams at the Al-Masjid al-Nabawi include His Eminence Sheikh Ali Abdur-Rahmaan Al Hudhaifi, His Eminence Sheikh Abdul Bari Al-Thubaiti, His Eminence Sheikh Husayn Aal Al-Sheikh, His Eminence Sheikh Dr. Salah Al-Budair (has led taraweeh prayers at Masjid al-Haram since 2005), His Eminence Sheikh Abdul Muhsin Al-Qasim (for taraweeh prayers), His Eminence Sheikh Maahir Hamad Al-Mu'ayqili (for taraweeh prayers), His Eminence Sheikh Abdullaah `Awwaad Al-Juhanee (for taraweeh prayers, but from 2005 has led taraweeh prayers at Masjid Al-Haram).


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