Sunday, March 16, 2008

BEFORE YOU CELEBRATE !!!!!

Sometimes ago, in a Ramadan, some Muslim youngsters came to a masjid during a tharaveeh time and made problems inside the masjid. And the next day it was needed police in that place. The reason for this incident---women came for tharavveh prayer in the masjid. We can see lots of women for an uroos or a birthday celebration programs, and lots of small temporary shops and a band march and a green flag. It is needed Muslims to compare their activities with life of prophet (peace be upon him). It is also needed Muslim organizations to evaluate their status regarding women by comparing status of women in prophet lifetime. Love towards prophet shouldn't limit to one day. It must be always and it must be better as living example as according to prophet life. It is needed to rethink Muslims, status of women by taking prophet life period.



The beauty of a woman. As with any gift, it is abused, neglected and used for purposes other than what it has been designed for. We see it often in the world today-women flaunting their gifts on magazine covers, on television, in the market, and so forth. Some Muslim girls thrilled by reality shows and dancing. And a show off with costliest dress in the market either tight or exposed. And Muslim women enthralled by watching those scenes. Consumerism is hugged those Muslim girls and women for beautifying them for functions and marriages and for uroos with latest fashions to compete with others. And some Muslim women they tell, we are not extremists; we are moderate in dressing by uncovering head , hands, neck etc . Some other Muslim women they utter Muslim women need to shine in each field. So it needs to avoid covering rule to shine in Sports, television, advertising etc and etc. Does it need to shine by discarding law of creator who created us?



It is a natural inclination with in women to beautify themselves and to show it off, but there are limits set by Allah for these natural instincts. The hijab, of course, is the most obvious example of Allah's limits. Modesty would be the virtue encompassing this issue. Many women spend great deal of time and effort to look their best for their prospective spouse during the engagement and marriage process. Once married, however, they soon forget the importance of this factor and may neglect their spouses desire to see them in attractive form. For women, it is essential that they look the best for their husbands.


Some Muslims, they practically made women as second class human being, in young age with no proper education, in marriages bounded with dowry, houses with kitchen cells and with one way command of men. In fact, the rights and responsibilities of a woman are equal to those of a man but they are not necessarily identical. Since men and women are not created identical, they have different physical and emotional qualities. It is needed to check status of women in Islam exists during prophet life time before you celebrate !!!


Let us pray Allah to make us in the right path…aameen

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